BEWARE OF THE INDIAN ONLINE WOLVES!!!

[Radha34]

There are different groups of women who can be very vulnerable to the Malaysian Indian Wolves. who, from day one, sets out to deliberately deceive someone like the single, single mums, divorcees and widows. Of these groups probably the most vulnerable will be those in the 30+ age group who are possible still single.

Loneliness plays a huge part in getting hurt by this wolves online. The are so many places like ICQ, mIRC channels, AOL chat rooms, Yahoo! and MSN chat rooms, etc. where we can enjoy chatting to people from all over the world; great places to pass the time and meet and make new friends most of whom are all genuinely nice people. BUT we need to remember there are wolves out there too who prey on the lonely vulnerable women (sheep, as they call them). The wolves lurk in the chat rooms, listen to what you are saying, they check out your profile - and then they POUNCE.

They rely on the fact that YOU feel safe, sitting in your own home, chatting and making new friends totally oblivious to the lurking wolf. This poem, by an unknown author, is a good reminder of what can happen.

Cyber Man

He'll watch you in the chat rooms
To win you is his goal
He'll woo you and pursue you
He'll charm your very soul

So when you get an e-mail
And it seems to fill your needs
You go ahead and answer
Not thinking where it leads

He plays you songs of romance
That get your juices flowing
He's sweet and kind and lovable
And suddenly you're glowing

And when you're in his clutches
And he has you feeling willing
He'll break your heart and drop you
He knows he's made a killing

He'll change his name,
Start anew, and find another quarry
You'll be crying bitter tears
While he's not even sorry

He preys upon the lonely
He knows just how to please
He'll send you virtual flowers
And he'll bring you to your knees

So ladies while you're chatting
Use caution all you can
Have fun, but heed the dangers
And beware the Cyber Man!!

Oh how I wish I had read this poem - maybe I would have been aware of the "Cyber Man" and not been hurt as I was.

If you do meet somebody online, in a chat room or elsewhere, and decide you would like to meet them for REAL, please follow this advice, it could save you from a lot of heartache.

■Always ask a man for his full name
■Always ask for an address
■Always ask for a telephone number (a home number) rather than a mobile one.
■Always check this information out, from the phone book etc.
■Always meet in a public place
■Always make sure you tell somebody exactly where you are going.
Remember - if this man is genuine, and really wants to meet you what has he to hide? Resist all his attempts to make you feel guilty about asking for his details, if he is really sincere in his feelings toward you he will readily understand your need for safety and he will give you the information to put your mind at rest. If he refuses to give it to you END IT NOW. Married men in particular, will often give a false name, address or telephone number to ensure that the "wife" does not find out about his online flings.!! Another thing to remember is that "photograph" he sends you of himself may not be an up to date one, it could be years old, or may not even be of him at all!!

The Internet, apart from its obvious educational/reference value, can be great fun. Most people you will meet will be polite, friendly, considerate and genuine. If he sounds too good to be true - he probably is. If you feel something is wrong, you are probably right. Remember YOU are always in control of your online activities, you can hit the Ignore button, you can block someone's e-mails and instant messages, you don't have to talk to anyone you don't trust at the end of the day you can always SWITCH OFF the computer.

■Always meet in a public place
■Always tell somebody exactly where you are going to meet this person.
■Always use a nickname that is genderless
■And remember are in control of your computer, you can always switch off and get out into the real world

Ladies, watchout and hope all those reading this article will contribute more addon to the below list of Malaysian Indian Online Wolves to ensure it safe for us and our future generation of the Indian Community ;

ID HP NUMBER

* hervin_nair 0143145416
* satish 0184711559
* Dico_Dev_Penang 0164524263
* ravivarman37 0133321863